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Feeling anxious. This Saturday will be going on a day trip with my boyfriend, his parents and some of their family friends. The last time I saw his family friends, I was pushing 90kgs and couples around our age were not very nice (the girls especially). My boyfriend keeps telling me that I have nothing to worry about because I’m not the same person anymore, but it’s TERRIFYING for me as I can’t help but feeling insecure and scared that history might repeat itself. I don’t want to be treated nice just because I look different. I want to be treated nice because that is common courtesy. I am so excited to be with him, but anxious about seeing everyone else. Not sure what to do or how to feel.
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1262 kcal
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Fat: 71.10g | Prot: 76.72g | Carbs: 76.63g.
Breakfast: Beacon All-in-One. Lunch: Nabisco Oreo, Beef Steak (Lean Only Eaten), Cucumber (with Peel) , Woolworths Tangy Coleslaw, Pick n Pay Crumbed Chicken Nuggets. Dinner: Biltong, Roasted Potato, Cooked Tomato and Onion (Fat Added in Cooking), Minced Lamb . Snacks/Other: Black Tea, Onion Rings (Breaded and Fried) . more...
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People that are judgmental don't deserve your friendship. Be polite and rather stick with those that are genuine... Don't stress.. You look beautiful.. 💖
18 Mar 21 by member: lessthan15
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Don’t let anyone steal your joy, ignore negative people, people can be so judgmental and it has absolutely nothing to do with you, it’s all about who they are as people. Remember people always have something to say, wether you’re doing good or bad, people will always find something to talk about. Be you , find what makes you happy and avoid the rest, it’s difficult at times but try. Don’t allow others to define you, your beauty or how to live your life.. you are very beautiful inside and out ❤️ Enjoy 🌺
18 Mar 21 by member: qq4q5372dg
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What you've accomplished is amazing. You seem like a genuinely nice person, you don't have to be nervous. Be your kind self and everything will fall into place.
18 Mar 21 by member: Ndlela Yami
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I think they will be the same, no matter what you look like. Faulty and talk bad behind your back kind of people. I know these type of people all too well. If I was in your shoes, I wouldn’t meet up with such people. Maybe I’m projecting my past experiences. Do what makes you happy. And if it doesn’t serve you or make your life better, no point going through such stress. Good luck Thilesha ☘️🌸
18 Mar 21 by member: Fatgirlslim1982
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if they judged you based on your weight in the beginning... they themselves are either very insecure or just plain nasty people. hold yourself to the standard you respect and expect for yourself 💪 it's not easy to just ignore judgement and when the same people compliment you as well it can be just as hurtful. I'm sorry that you experienced that and I hope the experience isn't repeated
18 Mar 21 by member: Shereen Donede
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How they reacted to you says way more about them than it does about you. I have a friend whose motto to me is "what other ppl think of me is none of my business". It is fully their stuff. Stand in your beautiful strength and to hell with what they think
18 Mar 21 by member: Taryn S.
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Thank you all for your words of encouragement ❤️ I am feeling a little better.. I am just going to see this as an opportunity to have fun and let loose with my diet. It’ll be the first day that I won’t be meticulously tracking, and I’m kind of excited to see whether I can control myself! I was really feeling so anxious this morning, but reading all of those msgs made me feel SO MUCH better!!! I love this FS community ❤️❤️❤️
18 Mar 21 by member: Thilesha
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