redgirl1974's Journal, 07 May 16

Geez, that's pretty crude. Whoever sent that deserves a severe case of painful genitals.  

Holy cats...I am flabbergasted by the texter's rudeness and meanness! Try to ignore them. You know how hard you are working and how much healthier you are becoming. You will become an even better you, but this person will still be a jerk. Sending soothing vibes your way... 

:(  

Sounds like jealousy, to me. Keep up the good work and don't let small people get in your way. 

Success is the best revenge. #fuel  

Diablo is dead on right! 

I'm sorry, what???? Who in the world says horrible stuff like that?! Tell us, and we'll all go collectively sit on her/him until she/he begs for forgiveness.  

@KPW it was my sister.. who sent the text to my brother and I was gonna borrow his phone and saw it.. I wanted to die.. Ill be over it tomorrow but holy hell, it stings bad today ..  

Oh, Andee. . . {{{huge hugs}}} Sisters can be the worst. I don't communicate with mine anymore. Sending lots of love your way.  

my sister had gastric bypass a few years ago and is a size 2.. i chose to lose my weight the "hard" way.... she forgets how heavy she used to be... its funny but when i first read that my 1st reaction was to come here.. i knew i would get the support i need to get thru this... i didnt say anything back...to her or my brother, who is innocent here bc he just mentioned that he and mom were over for dinner... I refuse to engage or lower myself to that level.. hey i may be chubby but im cute as heck !  

Let me guess Red, you're more successful than her, right? Jealous! 

@smarty , no she is way more skinny ..but way more mean too .. beaoch... bwahahhahah 

Keep shining that beautiful smile. I'm sure it stings... heck, it stung me just to read your post... but girl, you got this. You can do this. The "easy" way isn't for us. When we DO meet our goals, we'll be that much more proud of our hard work. It's a lasting positive effect on our lives. The "easy" way doesn't give that reward.  

I meant your probably more successful financially, or romantically, or with family, maybe you have a better job... Those things make people jealous and all they can do is call out people's weight. 

Andee like I just said in a private message....when people make nasty remarks it is "their problem" and don't waste time and energy rehashing what you read...not worth the time or energy. You are amazing and what a success story and from seeing the support above, be positive...that was one nasty remark whereas look at all the positive feedback you are getting:) cheer up kiddo...you're beautiful and don't let some nitwit bring you down LOL...hugs Maureen 

That just breaks my heart to hear people say things like that to us who struggle to lose some weight....i am sure some one must dislike her and want to hurt you so bad....but redgirl you will have the last laugh eventfully...maybe not today but your day will come....do not lose your focus. you go girl you are awesome. 

That's horrible. You know, what goes around comes around. Karma will pay her a visit for the mean things she is texting and saying or doing to people. 

Hugs to you! And this from someone who is supposed to love you?? Just sad! What a miserable person she must be, to be pitied I suppose. Keep your chin up and be happy. That will really get under her skin!  

So sad :( & and plain mean that your sister acts that way.As someone already said it - "Success is the best revenge"!! Keep on doing what yo doing girl!! 

:o Shiiiit... that's harsh.